Join a group of "equals" gives sense of security.
Teens are in open crisis, are suffering permanent physical and chemical changes, so we need to cling to the few things that can give a sense of firmness.
What are the benefits for adolescents belonging to a group
Join a gang prevents them from feeling isolated. For an adult, follow the fashion at the foot of the lyrics are something that indicates a lack of personality.
For adolescents, follow a trend without questioning is a way of being "almost adult" children "do not follow fads. It is natural for teens to follow the fashion or the customs of the group without regard to aesthetics.
They need to follow an opinion that makes them feel safe, why are not questioned as adults if they are an eyesore or whether a particular custom of the band is socially disagreeable.
When set limits, parents should consider these characteristics of adolescent psychology, not ridicule, but understanding their need for affirmation.
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